To get someone married/ to marry someone off
Son-in-law. Son-in-law. A nickname for a person who has given birth to his daughter or son.
("Thus the wise man Tzarih teaches to be a Zeriz in the 24 books of the Tanakh), said Rabbi Levi...What is this woman? All the time she is in her father's house she is a veil of her strength and no one knows her. She comes to the assembly to be married, revealing her face, saying, "Everyone who knows me as a witness must come and testify to me." Thus the wise man Tzarih teaches to be a veiled woman. This, and spread in his good deeds as the whole of this that is spread" - Midrash Tanhuma (Buber) interpreted that you will bear a sign, and so: "On the bed of two ideals you lie... She has not yet prepared for marriage, even if one of her children is born, and the comforts of her life are cut off and fly away" - Agnon/ Elo Wa Elo, Hindah, 19)
Translation
Expression (Hebrew)
הִכְנִיס לְחֻפָּה
Definition (Hebrew)
חִתֵּן. הַשִּׂיא. כִּנּוּי לְאָדָם שֶׁהַשִּׂיא אֶת בִּתּוֹ אוֹ בְּנוֹ.
("כָּךְ תַּלְמִיד חָכָם צָרִיךְ לִהְיוֹת זָרִיז בכ"ד סְפָרִים (24 סִפְרֵי הַתָּנָ"ךְ), אָמַר ר' לֵוִי...מָה הַכַּלָּה הַזּוֹ כָּל זְמַן שֶׁהִיא בְּבֵית אָבִיהָ הִיא מִצִּנְעַת עַצְמָהּ וְאֵין אָדָם מַכִּירָה, בָּאָה לְהִכָּנֵס לַחֻפָּה מְגִלַּת פָּנֶיהָ לֵאמֹר כָּל מִי שֶׁיּוֹדֵעַ לִי עֵדוּת יָבֹא וְיָעִיד לִי, כָּךְ תַּלְמִיד חָכָם צָרִיךְ לִהְיוֹת צָנוּעַ כְּכַלָּה הַזּוֹ, וּמְפֻרְסָם בְּמַעֲשָׂיו הַטּוֹבִים כְּכַלָּה הַזּוֹ שֶׁהִיא מְפֻרְסֶמֶת"- מִדְרַשׁ תַּנְחוּמָא (בּוּבֶּר) פָּרָשַׁת כִּי תִּשָּׂא סִימָן יָא, וְכֵן:"עַל עֶרֶשׂ דְּוַי איידילי שׁוֹכֶבֶת...עֲדַיִן לֹא הִכְנִיסָה לְחֻפָּה אֲפִלּוּ יֶלֶד אֶחָד מִיְּלָדֶיהָ וְרִגְעֵי חַיֶּיהָ גָּזוּ וְיָעוּפוּ"- עַגְנוֹן/ אֵלּוּ וָאֵלּוּ, הִנָּדַח, 19)