All your plans have misfired/ you have failed/ you have lost/ your donkey is lost, Tarfon
When asking a question in a meliza: You have lost! The loss is all yours. The recitation of Tzaar when it becomes clear that the loss of money or property has been lost. Slaneg: "You have eaten it" (Rabbi Tarfun heard this recitation himself after it became clear to him that he had erred in his ruling and therefore would be required to compensate the one who asked him).
("As Thaddeus the Physician said: No cow or sow comes out of Alexandria of Egypt unless its mother is cut off, so that it does not bear children. Rabbi Tarpun said: Your donkey went to Tarpun (who will force you to sell his donkey to pay for a cow that he has castrated)" - Sanhedrin 33a)
Translation
Expression (Hebrew)
הֲלָכָה חֲמוֹרְךָ טָרְפוּן
Definition (Hebrew)
בְּהַשְׁאָלָה בִּמְלִיצָה: הִפְסַדְתָּ ! הַהֶפְסֵד כֻּלּוֹ שֶׁלְּךָ. קְרִיאַת צַעַר כְּשֶׁמִּתְבָּרֵר שֶׁהִתְרַחֵשׁ הֶפְסֵד כַּסְפִּי אוֹ רְכוּשִׁי. סְלָאנֶג: "אָכַלְתָּ אוֹתָהּ" (קְרִיאָה זוֹ הִשְׁמִיעַ ר' טָרְפוּן עַל עַצְמוֹ לְאַחַר שֶׁהִתְבָּרֵר לוֹ שֶׁטָּעָה בַּהֲלָכָה שֶׁפָּסַק וְלָכֵן יִצְטָרֵךְ לְפַצּוֹת אֶת זֶה שֶׁשָּׁאַל אוֹתוֹ).
("שֶׁאָמַר תּוֹדוּס הָרוֹפֵא: אֵין פָּרָה וַחֲזִירָה יוֹצֵאת מֵאָלֶכְּסַנְדְּרִיָּה שֶׁל מִצְרַיִם אֶלָּא אִם כֵּן חָתְכֵן הַאִם שֶׁלָּהּ, כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא תֵּלֵד .אָמַר רַבִּי טָרְפוּן: הֲלָכָה חֲמוֹרְךָ טָרְפוּן (שֶׁיִּצְטָרֵךְ לִמְכֹּר אֶת חֲמוֹרוֹ לְשַׁלֵּם עַל פָּרָה שֶׁפָּסַל)"- סַנְהֶדְרִין לג ע"א)