אַבַּב חַנְוָאתָא נְפִישִׁי אַחֵי וּמְרַחֲמֵי, אַבַּב בִּזְיּוֹנֵי - לָא אַחֵי וְלָא מְרַחֲמֵי

ביטוי (אנגלית)

At the Storefront, Many Are My Brothers and Friends; at My Disgrace—Neither Brothers nor Friends

הגדרה (אנגלית)

At the entrance to a food shop, there are many “brothers” and “friends”; but at the entrance to disgrace or hardship—none remain. Figuratively: The wealthy or successful have many friends who seek benefit, but in times of misfortune or shame, those friends disappear.

("Rav Pappa said: At the entrance to the food shop, my brothers and friends abound; at the entrance to my disgrace—there are neither brothers nor friends." — Babylonian Talmud, Shabbat 32a)