בֵּין כָּךְ וּבֵין כָּךְ אֹוי לַקִּדְרָה

ביטוי (אנגלית)

In either case, woe to the pot

הגדרה (אנגלית)

Figuratively: In any option that is chosen, the same damage will occur. The result is bad in both cases.

("The stone fell on the pot – woe to the pot, the pot fell on the stone – woe to the pot, in either case, woe to the pot" - Esther Rabbah, Vilna edition, Parashah 7)