הִתְכַּבֵּד בִּקְלוֹן חֲבֵרוֹ, הִתְכַּבֵּד בִּקְלוֹנוֹ שֶׁל...

ביטוי (אנגלית)

He was honored by his friend's disgrace, he was honored by his...

הגדרה (אנגלית)

He sought honor for himself by humiliating the other. He brought 'honor' for himself by humiliating his friend or exposing his weaknesses.

("Rabbi Yose ben Hanina said, "He who is honored by the disgrace of his fellow man has no share in the world to come. He who is honored by the glory of the worldly life is not at all worthy" - Yerushalmi Hagiga 2, 1, and so on: "It is a commandment upon every man to love every single one of Israel as his own body...and he who is honored by the disgrace of his fellow man has no share in the world to come" - Harambam/ Sefer Hamada, Hilchot De'ot, Chapter Six, 3, 108, and so on: "He who is honored by the disgrace of his friend has no portion in the world to come. His strength to return in a way that seems like a person who is not a sinner, and he has sinned grievously" - Pela Yo'etz/Ot D', and so on: "And surely a good man was and was not honored by the disgrace of his friend" - Agnon/Takhriq Shel Stories, 19)